| Sunset and evening star, And one clear call for me! And may there be no moaning of the bar, When I put out to sea, But such a tide as moving seems asleep, Too full for sound and foam, When that which drew from out the boundless deep Turns again home. Twilight and evening bell, And after that the dark! And may there be no sadness of farewell, When I embark; For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place The flood may bear me far, I hope to see my Pilot face to face When I have crost the bar. "Crossing the Bar" (1889) - Alfred Lord Tennyson ********** So, this is not the post I had planned. I had a couple of Harry Potter inspired polishes lined up to show you, as well has some fun spring/summer colours. I was excited to be blogging again after my recent hiatus. Then, last Wednesday, the boyfriend got some horrible news. His mother had suddenly and unexpectedly passed away. The last couple of days have been exhausting, as the family has been trying to make arrangements and such, all the while grieving and trying to make sense of what happened. The shock has not worn off. I've been trying to be the supportive girlfriend. I love the bf, and his mother was always so warm and caring towards me. It's difficult to see him in so much pain, but I don't think I'm emotionally equipped to be much comfort. I chalk that up to my military upbringing. I could safely rescue you from a catastrophic weather event, but you would want someone else there with you as you sifted through what remained of your house and possessions. I've been staying strong, taking care of our day-to-day and finances. This doesn't mean I haven't cried while alone in the shower, or that this post is easy to type. Sunday was the memorial service. I wanted to wear a polish that would serve as my unspoken tribute to her. It might seem like a trivial thing, but my mind appreciated focusing on something tangible, and I agonized over what to wear. Polish addicts often plan out their manicures days (or weeks) in advance when it comes to birthdays, holidays, major life events. But what polish does one wear to what is basically the funeral of the woman who was to be one's mother-in-law? It's not a pleasant thing to think about, but it was important to me.  |
OPI Meet Me on the Star Ferry is from their Spring 2010 Hong Kong Collection. The "Star Ferry Co Ltd" name was inspired by the poem above. I don't really want to explain my polish choice past that. I haven't shared this with the bf yet. I don't know if I will.
All photos are two coats of Meet Me on the Star Ferry and one coat of Seche Vite. Any bubbles are the result of my sleep deprived application, not the fault of the polish. This polish looks different in every light, sometimes cooler or warmer. Frosty or crazy shimmery. Pink, purple, brown. I don't feel much like describing it in depth. Photos are all colour accurate, to an extent. (Let's say that they capture the spirit of the polish.) I'm just not that concerned this time. There are other, more perfect, swatches out there. These are being posted with love.
I'm hoping that my next post will be more upbeat. I got word a few hours ago that my own mother is in the hospital. Keep us in your thoughts, as you all are in mine.
XOXO,
Riotbettyx
I have this color too but have yet to wear it. It looks so pretty though :)
ReplyDeleteYou should totally wear it! It was pretty in the bottle, but didn't really call to me until now. I wish I hadn't waited so long to put it on. :)
DeleteThat's terrible. My condolences.
ReplyDeleteI understand what you mean about not being able to comfort. You sound like me, a problem solver. Finding logical solutions to situations. But all of that goes out the door when faced with supporting a loss. There is nothing you can do to ease that pain. Just know that being there is enough. Be strong and keep on keeping on.
I think you picked the perfect colour. And I forgot how wonderful Tennyson can be.
My thoughts are with you. <3
Thank you so much for this comment. Your words are a huge reassurance for me. It helps to be able to share, and have someone understand where I'm coming from. I'm surrounded by emotional females, and you're the only one who has been able to give me any solace in this situation. Much love to you! <3
DeleteI'm so glad :)
DeleteMy boyfriend's grandfather died last year and I realized how ill equipped I was for such situations. All I wanted to do was "there there" him on the shoulder and tell him to get on with it and keep moving. Instead I just didn't say anything and silently took control for awhile. They know we're not good at this stuff. All they need is good hugs and someone telling them to eat.
Thank you! I was surprised by how complex it is.
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